Noticing that there are many different ways to begin a conversation.
Exploring how the same goal can be reached through different communication styles.
Considering that conversation starters look and feel different for everyone.
Thinking about how words, gestures, images, and sounds are all used to open a conversation.
Cast members from the television show Fisk each demonstrate a way to start a conversation. Some use humour, some ask a question, and others make an observation about something nearby. Each person's approach has a different tone and style. The clip is playful and light in mood.
• What did you notice about the different ways each person started a conversation?
• Was there an approach that felt familiar to you?
• What ways of starting a conversation feel comfortable for you?
• In what ways have you started a conversation?
• What might make it easier to start a conversation with someone you do not know well?
• Why might some people use humour to begin a conversation?
• When might humour not be the easiest way to start?
• What could help if someone does not respond straight away?
The questions within this guide are designed to open dialogue and facilitate discussion around the relevant topics. It is up to the user to adapt as needed to best suit the person they are supporting. A neuroaffirming approach was central to the design of these resources and remains essential to their application. This means recognising and respecting the diverse ways people think, communicate, and experience the world, ensuring all conversations are led with curiosity, respect, and without judgement. These resources are a starting point. Trust your knowledge of the person you are supporting to shape the conversation from there.
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