Understanding that people need different amounts of personal space.
Noticing body signals that show someone wants more space.
Exploring how closeness can change as people get to know each other.
Practising ways to check what distance feels comfortable.
In this clip from Pablo, Draff explains that personal space is a comfortable distance between people. Tang runs up to Llama, and Llama moves back. Draff says friends can be close, but new people may need more space. Pablo walks towards Llama until Llama says he is too close. Pablo steps back to a distance that respects Llama's space.
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