Thinking about how not everyone likes to engage in small talk.
Considering what kinds of topics and questions are often asked in small talk.
Recognising that some people might be more comfortable talking about different topics.
Two people interact in a casual setting while one makes toast and the other waits. The clip uses humour with one character wanting to avoid small talk. They attempt small talk, moving quickly through common topics like the weekend, weather, and sports.
• What do you notice about the two speakers?
• How do they respond when they do not fully understand or share the same interest?
• What makes small talk feel easy or awkward for you?
• What is your preferred way of responding if someone says something unexpected?
• How do you notice when someone is distracted or ready to end a conversation?
• If a topic feels awkward, what could help you move on to something else?
The questions within this guide are designed to open dialogue and facilitate discussion around the relevant topics. It is up to the user to adapt as needed to best suit the person they are supporting. A neuroaffirming approach was central to the design of these resources and remains essential to their application. This means recognising and respecting the diverse ways people think, communicate, and experience the world, ensuring all conversations are led with curiosity, respect, and without judgement. These resources are a starting point. Trust your knowledge of the person you are supporting to shape the conversation from there.
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