Noticing that stress and tiredness can change how a person responds.
Recognising how partners can notice and respond to each other's feelings.
Exploring how humour can help people connect over differences.
Celebrating telling your own story in your own way.
In this clip from his stand up show, comedian Drew Lynch explains that his stutter can show up more when he feels nervous, frustrated or overwhelmed. He describes coming home exhausted after a day of shows. His wife notices and asks what is wrong. When Drew says he is feeling stressed, he stutters on the word and it sounds like a beat. His wife starts dancing, and they joke about starting a band and not finishing it.
The questions within this guide are designed to open dialogue and facilitate discussion around the relevant topics. It is up to the user to adapt as needed to best suit the person they are supporting. A neuroaffirming approach was central to the design of these resources and remains essential to their application. This means recognising and respecting the diverse ways people think, communicate, and experience the world, ensuring all conversations are led with curiosity, respect, and without judgement. These resources are a starting point. Trust your knowledge of the person you are supporting to shape the conversation from there.
For access to playback speed, transcripts or closed captions, please click the video title in the top left of the player to access the Youtube source where these controls are provisioned.
We are always looking to grow and improve this resource and would love to hear from you. Whether you have a suggestion for a clip or topic, a question about your subscription, or feedback to share, please do not hesitate to reach out.
Please also see our knowledge base for further information.