Exploring what it looks like when someone is so focused on themselves that they may not show much interest in others.
Thinking about what makes someone enjoyable to be around.
Considering how confidence can look and feel different depending on how it is expressed.
Reflecting on what it means to show genuine interest in another person.
Gloria the hippo is introduced to Moto Moto at the watering hole. Moto Moto sings a song about how much he likes Gloria, but the lyrics focus almost entirely on his own appearance and how great he thinks he is. He poses and preens throughout the clip, drawing attention to himself and expecting admiration. Gloria responds with interest and enjoyment, while Moto Moto barely asks anything about her. The scene ends with Moto Moto and Gloria together, with Moto Moto still very focused on himself.
• What did you notice about the way Moto Moto moved and talked?
• Who do you think Moto Moto was mostly thinking about as he walked to Gloria?
• What is the difference between feeling proud of yourself and being arrogant?
• Have you ever spent time with someone who mostly talked about themselves?
• What does it feel like when someone asks about you and seems genuinely interested?
• Can you think of a time when you felt confident without needing to show off?
• What do you think makes someone good to be around when they feel proud of themselves?
The questions within this guide are designed to open dialogue and facilitate discussion around the relevant topics. It is up to the user to adapt as needed to best suit the person they are supporting. A neuroaffirming approach was central to the design of these resources and remains essential to their application. This means recognising and respecting the diverse ways people think, communicate, and experience the world, ensuring all conversations are led with curiosity, respect, and without judgement. These resources are a starting point. Trust your knowledge of the person you are supporting to shape the conversation from there.
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