Noticing that two characters in the same situation can have very different goals and needs.
Exploring how a first impression can change when new information comes to light.
Considering how looking more closely at a situation can shift the way we understand it.
Thinking about what it feels like to be misunderstood by someone.
Building awareness of how our responses can change when we take time to observe.
In this short animation, a fisherman and his dog Joy are out on a boat fishing. A heron visits the boat repeatedly and takes bait. Joy reacts with frustration, seeing the heron as a nuisance. Over time, Joy observes the heron more closely and begins to notice something new. By the end, Joy's response shifts from frustration to understanding and care.
• What was the man hoping to achieve?
• What was the heron trying to do?
• How was the dog, Joy, behaving at the start of the video?
• How did Joy's behaviour change by the end?
• What do you think Joy first assumed about the heron?
• What led to Joy changing her perspective / view?
• Can you think of a time your understanding of someone changed after you found out more?
The questions within this guide are designed to open dialogue and facilitate discussion around the relevant topics. It is up to the user to adapt as needed to best suit the person they are supporting. A neuroaffirming approach was central to the design of these resources and remains essential to their application. This means recognising and respecting the diverse ways people think, communicate, and experience the world, ensuring all conversations are led with curiosity, respect, and without judgement. These resources are a starting point. Trust your knowledge of the person you are supporting to shape the conversation from there.
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